I opened up my personal e-mail messages today and discovered this article from Caitlin Price over at FSB Associates.  This is one remedy I can definitely adopt!

Remedy SuperStress with Chocolate
By Roberta Lee M.D.,
Author of The SuperStress Solution

If you love chocolate, you’re not alone. It turns out that the average person in the United States consumes approximately 12 pounds of chocolate a year. That might sound like a lot of chocolate, but I actually recommend that my patients — especially those who are chronically stressed or what I would describe as SuperStressed — indulge in 1 ounce of high quality and high cocoa mass chocolate a day, and that actually adds up to well more than 12 pounds over the course of the year. Sure, chocolate is a calorie laden food (with most of the calories coming from the cocoa butter), but in my opinion, the benefits of this treat outweigh the caloric load as long as you keep the portions small. Here are the benefits:

• On a gram for gram basis, chocolate has a terrifically high concentration of antioxidants known as flavonoids. More than berries and spinach, even. Flavonoids have been shown to lower high blood pressure and reduce the risk of heart disease and strokes.
• Chocolate is rich in magnesium and potassium, two minerals that help promote the “relaxation response,” as well as iron and zinc, which are minerals that many people don’t often get enough of during the course of the day. Chocolate also contains a good amount of selenium, which enhances immune health.
• Chocolate contains several psychoactive compounds being studied and debated as responsible for the mood lift many of us experience when eating it. First, there’s phenylethylamine (PEA), a natural trace amine that is a stimulant that is elevated in the brain when we are in love and is low when we are depressed. Secondly, there’s theobromine, a compound that imparts energy and a sense of alertness. Finally, chocolate contains a small amount of a chemical known as N-arachidonoylethanolamine, a substance that keeps our endogenous happiness molecules — or endorphins — from breaking down. In other words, if we are happy, we just might stay happier longer with a little chocolate.

Of course, there’s also ample consumer-proven evidence that chocolate tastes good, and that eating it can provide a little respite — an oasis of pleasure and calm — from our otherwise hectic days! And to me, that’s what’s so special about this sweet treat. I find chocolate has the ability to enhance sensory recruitment in every way. It’s so inexpensive to have a piece of chocolate and it’s so pleasurable, that if that’s something you like and that’s part of what living well is about, I say: go for it. The ideal cocoa mass is 75% or more — this will be clear on the label and is most often found in dark chocolate — and the ideal portion is 1 ounce (about 1/3 of an average bar or roughly the size of the palm of a woman’s hand). Doctor’s orders!

To reduce stress, and avoid SuperStress, try this today: Simple as it sounds; focused breathing — during which you think about your breath as you inhale and exhale — is a very effective stress-management technique. A slow, full breath triggers physical and cognitive changes that promote relaxation. Deep breathing helps release tension and anxiety and is a great energizer because the deeper the breath, the more your body is flooded with life-fueling oxygen. A full breath begins with the diaphragm pushing downward so that the stomach extends out. As your lungs fill with air, your chest expands. When you exhale, the reverse occurs — your chest settles first and then your stomach. When anxiety strikes or you find yourself focusing on negative thoughts, immediately exhale through your mouth. Now, open your lungs, and breathe in through your nose, drawing in a fresh, cleansing air to the count of four. Exhale again slowly to the count of five. Repeat four times.

Copyright © 2009 Roberta Lee M.D., author of The SuperStress SolutionAuthor Bio
Roberta Lee, M.D., author of The SuperStress Solution, is vice chair of the Department of Integrative Medicine, director of Continuing Medical Education, and co-director of the Fellowship in Integrative Medicine at Beth Israel’s Continuum Center for Health and Healing at Beth Israel Medical Center in New York City. Dr. Lee attended George Washington University Medical School and is one of the four graduates in the first class from the Program of Integrative Medicine at the University of Arizona conducted by Andrew Weil, M.D.
For more information please visit www.superstresssolution.com

On another note, remember when I kept lamenting how unmotivated I was to study and how I was questioning whether I wanted to continue?  Well, I found my motivation.  It turns out that the registration deadline for this testing window closed on September 30th.  Technically, I should not have been allowed to registration to retake the exam this week, not to mention the fact that the organization has not received my test results from Saturday, which are also required to be able to retake the test.  I was very gracious to the person on the phone and explained how I didn’t miss it by much and how much I really do not want to have to wait until January to take it again.  She was wonderful, said she was going to plead my case and would get back to me either way with either my authorization number.  I received a phone call less than two hours later from her with my authorization number and instructions on when I can go to the testing site and register there for a seat.  As she said, she wanted to make sure that I was able to get a seat, as they have a tendency to go quickly at the end of a testing window.  Ever since talking to her, I have been so motivated to study, and not only that but study well rather than go through the motions.  It’s taken me six weeks, but I am finally motivated enough to declare that I WILL pass this exam.  I have to take a vacation day to take the exam on Friday, but it is so worth it to not to have to take the exam again in January!!

On a sad note, remember when I declared that I was a horrible friend last week?  Do you want to know how horrible I was?  I made one of my friends cry today because she thought I was mad at her or didn’t want to have anything to do with her anymore.  ***sigh***  I am an awful person and feel so guilty that she was left thinking that.  I owe her SO big for any misery I caused her this past week and weekend.  I hate what these tests do to me and hate what it does to my friendships even more.