Title: The Affairs of Others
Author: Amy Grace Lloyd
ISBN: 9781250041296
No. of Pages: 304
Genre: Fiction
Origins: Picador USA
Release Date: 27 August 2013
Bottom Line: Disquieting and yet compelling novel about loss
Synopsis:
“Five years after her young husband’s death, Celia Cassill has moved from one Brooklyn neighborhood to another, but she has not moved on. The owner of a small apartment building, she has chosen her tenants for their ability to respect one another’s privacy. Celia believes in boundaries, solitude, that she has a right to her ghosts. She is determined to live a life at a remove from the chaos and competition of modern life. Everything changes with the arrival of a new tenant, Hope, a dazzling woman of a certain age on the run from her husband’s recent betrayal. When Hope begins a torrid and noisy affair, and another tenant mysteriously disappears, the carefully constructed walls of Celia’s world are soon tested and the sanctity of her building is shattered – through violence and sex, in turns tender and dark. Ultimately, Celia and her tenants are forced to abandon their separate spaces for a far more intimate one, leading to a surprising conclusion and the promise of genuine joy.”
Thoughts: Since The Affairs of Others is a first-person narrative told through Celia’s point of view and with her observations and opinions, one’s enjoyment of the novel hinges on whether one finds Celia a credible narrator. A young, financially independent widow with sadomasochistic tendencies and a penchant for hiding from the world may cause some readers to cringe at the self-pity and self-imposed seclusion while also causing them to feel horrible for doing so. For Celia’s actions, especially regarding her behavior on the subway, have their roots in a tragic loss that Ms. Lloyd exquisitely captures, and readers will simultaneously wish Celia to snap out of her malaise and completely sympathize with her inability to work through her grief. It is a complicated reaction to an even more complicated scenario.
Confusing the situation even further is Hope’s arrival in Celia’s apartment and into her life. Hope’s behavior is equally disturbing and yet surprisingly understandable given the demise of her long-lived marriage. It takes no great stretch of one’s imagination to envision Hope’s guilt at the end of her marriage and need for self-flagellation in the form of an abusive relationship. Just like with Celia’s behavior, readers will find Hope’s equally repellent and refreshingly real. The dichotomies of feelings these characters create make The Affairs of Others a somewhat uncomfortable read.
Really, all of Celia’s tenants do generate the same contrasting emotions, while Hope and Celia create the strongest reactions. Chosen for their need for solitude as much as for Celia’s desire for a little supplemental income, they mirror Celia’s own need for isolation and her conflicting tendencies. This character-fueled novel is as much about coming to terms with the need for internal and external compromise as it is about overcoming and moving on from a tragic loss.
For all of the negativity within all of the characters but especially within Celia and Hope, the story ends on a surprising note of optimism and tenderness. If this understandably dismal group of individuals can heal and continue to live, then so can even the most desperate of readers. Their stories intertwine in unanticipated ways that soothe the disquiet that inhabits most of the story. For all a reader’s discomfiture through the novel, the sense of a new beginning that arrives at the end of the novel is not only a suitable ending, it is one that readers can appreciate more fully specifically because it is the end of a long and sometimes painful journey. Amy Grace Lloyd’s The Affairs of Others might not be a showy novel, but readers will find its quiet exploration of pain and loss satisfying.

Sounds very interesting; I’ll definitely be looking to pick it up.
It is that. It is also a mood read, as in you have to be in the right mood to appreciate it. Good luck!
Hoped to get to this one in August, but not sure that it will happen — glad u enjoyed it. I do plan to read it soon. Hope all is well Michelle.
The good news is that it is fairly short in pages and a quick-ish read. Hopefully, you can squeeze it in this month. Enjoy!
I just read another review of this one which is odd because I had not heard of this book before today, but I like the quiet reflection aspect of it, but I am not sure I am in the mood for abuse of any kind. I have to be in the right place to read about it.
The abuse is difficult especially because in both cases, one could make an argument that it is self-induced. This is definitely a book that requires being in the right frame of mind before starting it. Escapist reading it is not.
Lovely review as always 🙂 I actually finished this one yesterday and I still don’t know what to think of it. Simply put? I liked it.
I’m still of two minds on it. I liked it but wouldn’t say it is an easy ready by any means.